IS YOUR HONEY STILL HUNG ON THE EX ???
You thought the fiery passion your partner had with an old lover was extinguished. But a nagging part of you suspects a spark might still belingering. Are you in danger of getting burned by an ex who's obsessed with rekindling an old flame?
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Constant Comparisons
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Is the object of your affection afflicted with chronic mention-itis? As in, "You like pizza? Ohmigod, my ex loved pizza!" If you're hearing howmuch or how little you remind your sweetie of his or her ex, it could be that they're still smitten. The condition, fortunately, isn't terminal. But it does require some further testing...
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Downplaying the Past
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Your dude or dame is still in denial if they can't admit to how strong their feelings were or how much the breakup hurt. Someone with a healthy distance from their past should be able to admit to loving, losing and learning from it. If your sweetheart isn't up to that, they could still be lovesick.
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Mr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde
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One day he's super attentive, the next she's saying she needs her space. What gives? He or she is still bouncing along on the rebound if their feelings about you seem to go from highs to lows. Then there's the opposite problem...
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Speedy Seriousness
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Is he or she rushing into a Really Serious Relationship with you? A honey who's still haunted by past hurts may subconsciously try to recreate that old kind of commitment, even if neither of you are ready for it. Just say whoa.
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Staying (A Little Too) Friendly
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Your new baby is quick to reassure you that he or she has a great relationship with their ex. Oh, they really get along. In fact, they hang out all the time. Problem is, they're doing it without you. Unless you're privy to most of their get-togethers, you've got problems. It's hard to commit to a new relationship if you're still playing at being in one with another.
You thought the fiery passion your partner had with an old lover was extinguished. But a nagging part of you suspects a spark might still belingering. Are you in danger of getting burned by an ex who's obsessed with rekindling an old flame?
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Constant Comparisons
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Is the object of your affection afflicted with chronic mention-itis? As in, "You like pizza? Ohmigod, my ex loved pizza!" If you're hearing howmuch or how little you remind your sweetie of his or her ex, it could be that they're still smitten. The condition, fortunately, isn't terminal. But it does require some further testing...
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Downplaying the Past
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Your dude or dame is still in denial if they can't admit to how strong their feelings were or how much the breakup hurt. Someone with a healthy distance from their past should be able to admit to loving, losing and learning from it. If your sweetheart isn't up to that, they could still be lovesick.
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Mr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde
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One day he's super attentive, the next she's saying she needs her space. What gives? He or she is still bouncing along on the rebound if their feelings about you seem to go from highs to lows. Then there's the opposite problem...
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Speedy Seriousness
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Is he or she rushing into a Really Serious Relationship with you? A honey who's still haunted by past hurts may subconsciously try to recreate that old kind of commitment, even if neither of you are ready for it. Just say whoa.
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Staying (A Little Too) Friendly
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Your new baby is quick to reassure you that he or she has a great relationship with their ex. Oh, they really get along. In fact, they hang out all the time. Problem is, they're doing it without you. Unless you're privy to most of their get-togethers, you've got problems. It's hard to commit to a new relationship if you're still playing at being in one with another.
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